Summer is here (cue Frozen soundtrack). We all know (and
quite possibly dread) the fact that summer means it is bathing suit season. It
means itty bitty bikinis are popping up all over the place, and you get workout
videos that have titles like “get that sexy bikini body.” And all of this gets
only an eye roll out of me. I read an article about bathing suits called “Have
Time Changed for the Better? A Look Back at Women's Swimwear” and a few
points really stood out to me, and I believe it is worth taking a look at.
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The word modesty and bathing suits does not seem to make
sense. The article outlines a study that proved that when men see women in
bathing suits, the women become objects in their minds. I am not about to start
calling men pigs, and I’m sure there are plenty of men in the world who still
treat women with respect despite what is on their bodies, but one cannot deny
the facts from the study. And summertime is when these facts come into play many
more times than the other seasons. Is that fair? The article has, in fact, asked a
fair question. Have times changed for the better indeed. I look at the earliest
bathing suits and think “wow that’s a lot of covering up,” when these bathing
suits were, in fact, rebellious. The article goes through many pictures of
bathing suits over the years, and we seem to be wearing less and less over the
decades. This whole bathing suit madness is so confusing. I can’t seem to
figure out whether this is female empowerment or simply the works of an
overpowering fashion industry.
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Here’s a fact for you. No matter what decade it is, there
will always be people judging. If you wear a bikini, you aren’t covering up
enough, but if you wear a one piece, you are covering up too much. And can we
just talk about the lack of cute one-piece bathing suits in the world? So what
do we do to balance between empowerment and objectification? WEAR WHAT YOU
WANT. It can be just as simple as that. I do not look all that great in a
bikini, but I go ahead and wear one anyway because that is how I am
comfortable. Some girls that would look fantastic in a bikini are more
comfortable in a full piece. As the article states, “the truth is, whether you’re
topless in a G-String or wearing a skirted maillot, someone, somewhere is going
to be offended by your swimwear.” So stop worrying! The good news is that there
are more and more options every year for all shapes and sizes (including some
lovely one pieced suits), so find what you are most comfortable in. When you’re
ready to take those layers off the reveal your super cute bathing suit remember
the real reason you’re doing it: to cool off in the water or get some sun on
your skin. Take the plunge and have fun doing it, no matter what you’re
wearing!
-Daniella
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