So this book took me way too long to read. I read before bed
to shut my brain off, but I was so exhausted all summer that I was asleep as
soon as I got into bed. It has been a long time, but I finally finished it! I
took a good handful of quotes that sparked my thinking, so brace yourself! And
if you’re interested in the tradition summer, you can find it here.
1.
When
people can be divided by something they always will be (9).
Just think-the
only thing that really divides us as people are differences. If we see someone
who is a fraction of a fraction different than us, our minds consider it
division. Why is that? Why must we let things get in the way of relationships?
2.
All
the more because if you ask me, these days the soul is a commodity like
anything else. You can buy it and sell it, and the prices aren’t high (28)
A popular book
genre of the modern era is “self-help.” Lumped with that topic is
soul-searching and finding yourself. However, we live in a society where your
soul is no longer important. No one pays attention to their soul anymore. No
one nurtures it. And then it gets lost in the technology and fast-paced world
and we all end up as empty shells because hey, we sold our souls to keep up
with society.
3.
But
can you ever tell what a person’s staring at? You think they’re staring at one
thing or another, but they might be staring inside themselves. People have
things to look at inside themselves, that’s for sure (30).
This is such an
interesting idea. When people appear to zone out, what if they are just doing
some inner searching? I don’t think enough people spend enough time watching
their own insides. We tend to get stuck on figuring other people out, but we
don’t stop and look inside to figure out who we are yet. What would you find if
you looked inside yourself?
4.
After
all, there are words like that that don’t have any fixed meaning. Words that
can adapt to any of our desires, our dreams, our desires, our longings, our
thoughts (63).
There are so
many words in every language. So how is it that we can attribute words to our
every move? Words are so powerful. They can mean so many things to one person, and
the complete opposite to the person sitting beside you. And this is why I love
studying English.
5.
In my
view it’s not just music but life itself that’s governed by rhythm. When
someone loses their rhythm, they lose hope. What are tears, what is despair, if
not an absence of rhythm? What is memory if not rhythm (96).
This is such a
poetic way to think about the way we live. We all live in a relatively steady
pattern of life. When we face a loss or a death or a struggle, then our lives
are disrupted, and we simply cannot continue on the same rhythm. We may need a
complete key change in order to get our lives back in order.
6.
Because
I was thinking that if we found some people we knew in common, maybe we’d find
ourselves too, the two of us, at some time or other, some place or other (147).
This quote is
not quite about what I took from it, but the same thing still applies. Some relationships
fall apart at one point or another. Sometimes, it is irreparable. Sometimes,
the pair needs to find themselves again. They need to be reminded of why they
are in the relationship, whether it be romantic or a friendship, and how they
came together in the first place. I find that once people have a strong hold on
their roots, they are able to grow stronger than before.
7.
You
can fit an awful lot into one sentence. Maybe everything. Maybe a whole
lifetime. A sentence is the measure of the world, a philosopher once said
(149).
Once again, this
is all about the power of words. I, personally, have had a few moments in my
life where one sentence made me stop and think because it affected me so
deeply. Can you remember the last time it happened to you?
8.
If you sat down and thought about it, how many
unspoken words like that must have disappeared forever? And they may have been
more important than all the ones that were spoken (230).
I swear this
book isn’t all about words! Think about the things you didn’t say. The things
like “I love you” or “I appreciate you” or “I’m sorry” or “Thank you” are all
so important, but what about the time you saw that person with the great smile
on the bus? What if you could have changed someone’s life by saying “I like
your smile?” It is the small words that could mean the most to people.
9.
It’s
true that our whole life we have to pretend in order to live. There isn’t a
moment when we’re not pretending. We even pretend to ourselves. In the end,
though, there comes a moment when we don’t feel like pretending anymore. We
grow tired of ourselves. Not of the world, not of other people, but of
ourselves (335).
I choose not to
live in a world where I have fabricated a completely different version of
myself to show off, but I can still relate to this. Sometimes, I push my
feelings to the side. I don’t allow myself to be sad, or grieve, or relax. I
keep on pretending that I am okay, and eventually, all my feelings catch up to
me. We all need to take a second, look at ourselves, and get to the real stuff
underneath the masks.
10.
Of
course-silence is a voice. And it’s words. Though words have lost faith in
themselves, you might say (339).
Silence can be so
powerful. I remember watching a TV show where a man said the secret to a good
marriage is silence. Most people find silence awkward and fill it with
gibberish (which usually makes it even more awkward). I think more of us should
take pleasure in silence. Between certain people, words CAN say a lot.
I’m going a different direction
with my next choice, but I am excited to start it! Have you ever read a book
with interesting narration? Why did it draw you in?
-Daniella
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